

I started this blog in 2009 to keep folk up to date on my husband's melanoma treatments. I have kept up daily blogs for 17 years…sometimes health related...sometimes just daily routine. 6/16/24 Woody took his final breath in his long health battle. I have blogged for so long that it is part of my daily routine…so I guess I will continue with posts from me about how I cope with this new stage in my life…widowhood.



It was overcast and a bit breezy, but that wasn't a deterrent to getting a lot of raking and leaf blowing done today. Nathan, Kathy, Joy, Isaac, and Joseph arrived first. Then Melany, Wade, and Erin got here a few minutes after. And, then a bit later Elijah came. And, boy did they work hard! The Proctors brought all kinds of goodies including a birthday cake. The goodies were a good break time for the kids. They worked till lunch. Then I sent Nathan for pizza. Pizza for lunch then Melany's delicious carrot cake for dessert and to celebrate Wade's and my birthdays coming up in a few days. We had a very nice day. Erin wasn't feeling well…she got to feeling carsick on her way here and never felt great the whole time they were here. But it was good to get to see her…just sorry she didn’t feel well.
Nathan stayed a while after everyone left and worked on one of my birthday gifts…a hummingbird feeder that has a camera in it to snap hummer photos. It is partially ready…he has to mount a small solar panel…so that will happen another day…which is fine as I don't think the hummingbirds are back in TN yet.
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

It was a very warm day today. When I got into my car around noon, it said that it was 82°! It was very much a March day when you figure in the wind…but probably the warmest day that we have seen so far this year. Today was busy starting out nicely with having breakfast with Jo and Carolyn. We always have such a good time when we get together…always fun catching up with each other. The morning sped by all too quickly. Since I was on the side of town where I needed to run errands, that's what I did after we parted ways. I needed to pick up just a few things at Kroger so did that quickly and made a stop at the Credit Union. Then it was back home and time for a rest! I took a bit longer nap than I meant, but guess I needed it.
If the weather cooperates tomorrow, there may be a gathering of some Dorrells and some Proctors here to do some yard work and birthday celebrating. I guess the birthday celebrating can happen weather cooperating or not. Birthdays seem to come rain or shine!!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

I’ve had a pretty busy day. I managed to vacuum upstairs in the hallway and guest room…those areas upstairs had been pretty much full of boxes with no room for the vacuum to be able to do its work. I did a little more cleaning downstairs, too. So both the upstairs vacuum and the downstairs vacuum got a bit of a workout again today. I am so thankful that I no longer have to lug a vacuum up and down the stairs!
I have also done a little stitching. I did finish the next Christmas ornament…so now I have stitched seven ornaments for gifts for the coming Christmas. I’m closing in on completing another audio book for another Cottey Bookclub selection on down the road a bit…getting ahead on my reading for that.
It was such a pleasant day, that I actually put on a short sleeve shirt after getting rather warm with long sleeves while vacuuming. I think we are in for another dry day tomorrow, but Saturday may turn a bit soggy.
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

It has been another beautiful day. I turned in tax documents to my accountant today…that was my accomplishment of the morning. Nathan came over this afternoon and put away all my Christmas boxes. Yay! I called Cheryl and let her know that she could now come for a visit as her bed was cleared off once again! Now I can run the vacuum down a clear hallway. It has been a while. I'll see if I can accomplish that tomorrow. I have been listening to the next Cottey Bookclub book, as it became available the other day. I’ll read it while I have it available. Although, remembering it in detail for two months is doubtful! But at least I will have read it! I went to Bible study this evening, and am now home ready to settle in for the evening. I think that "if" my eyes stay open this evening that I will have the ornament finished tonight. What I have left to stitch isn't much…I "should" be able to stay awake long enough to take these last few stitches. Time will tell! To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

Well, today has been a bit of a wash for me. I didn't feel very well for a good part of the day. I thought for a while that I might be coming down with something, but as the day wore on I felt better not worse…so think that it was just a day I didn't need to do much! Donna and I had decided on Sunday that we would take today off from the church library…so it was a day that I could do next to nothing! I did bake some biscuits from scratch early this morning…before I realized that I wasn't feeling great. I had the meat thawed to make a soup/stew today, but put that off until just a little while ago. It is now made for tomorrow…but now I have a mess to clean up…after I blog and sit and rest a few minutes. While cooking I finished listening to a book, the next book for my Cottey Bookclub. I did do a little stitching early this morning, but set it aside. Maybe I will do a little more when I get the kitchen cleaned up. I am close to being finished with this Christmas ornament. It was another beautiful spring-like day today. I enjoyed it when I made my trek out to take the garbage can to the road and get my mail. I did have a piece of mail that I had been looking for…my birth certificate…back after being sent to the government with my application for my passport. The only item that hasn't gotten back to me yet is my renewed driver's license…that I renewed online. I renewed it online the same day that I sent off my passport application, which had to go through the mail both ways. US government seems to be on top of things more than the TN government!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well. Be cautious!

Another spring-like day…though not a blue-sky day. I was thankful that it was overcast as I had an eye appointment and that meant when coming out into the daylight that my dilated eyes wouldn't have to fight the brightness. My eye appointment went well. I could tell that I could see better with one of my eyes than the other and asked her what the eye that wasn't as good tested…20/20…so guess I am seeing very well. I didn't ask what the better eye tested…but I know I could read several lines more with it. She said that my eyes were doing well and that everything tested out well and that I didn't have to come back for a year…sounds good to me. I liked my new eye doctor very well, but it was rather sad to go into the office with all the memories of my former eye doctor and realize that he had died. The office is still just getting used to his absence.
The rest of my day has been rather quiet, as my eyes were dilated (and still aren't totally back to normal and I just didn't feel like doing much…couldn't stitch, couldn't read…the kitchen lights were too bright for me to do anything in there. I did call Cheryl, my favorite and only sister, to wish her a happy birthday and we talked for a while. After lunch, I took a nap. Another friend called and we talked for a while. Then it was time to head to Monday night Furnace Room Prayer Meeting. I am now home and am going to have a late supper. Then I hope that my eyes are able to do a little stitching, if not, then I may watch a little TV before settling in to sleep.
We did have a good birthday celebration for Graham yesterday…a nice family time. I’ll add in here at the end the family picture that I took before the gathering broke up. Kathy hadn't gotten a picture of all of them on the day of Esther's and Patrick's wedding so she was determined to get a photo of all eleven of them together yesterday…so I obliged!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!


I guess you can say, instead of camper, a very happy cruiser because my passport arrived in the mail today. I now have "real" ID! I have tucked it away for safe keeping…told Melany where it is…in case I forget! I guess I am one step closer to being able to go on the cruise. I still haven't gotten my birth certificate back from them. Wade said that usually the birth certificate gets sent back before the passport…well, not in this case! But this is what I really need. Sailing to Alaska, but one of our ports of call is Victoria, British Columbia, Canada so I will be in another country during the cruise.
Today has been a stay-at-home day and I have done a little of this and a little of that around the house. I have also stitched on the Christmas ornament that I have been working on…getting close to a finish on this one. I have talked on the phone with Melany. We were making plans to celebrate Wade's and my birthday (we share the same birthday) this coming weekend. Tomorrow afternoon we celebrate Graham's birthday. Monday is my favorite (only) sister Cheryl's birthday. Lots of birthday celebrating going on!
It has been a very pretty spring-like day. Once again, nice to go out to the mailbox without having to wear a jacket. It seems like days like this are happening more often…Spring must be close! I'm ready!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

How time does pass…all too quickly! It doesn’t seem possible that Graham could be 24, but unbelievably that many years have passed since I heard him cry through the phone lines not long after he was born in Texas. Woody and I drove to see him for the first time in March during my Spring Break from Montessori. On that trip to Texas, we stopped in Missouri to see Woody's sister who was dying from colon cancer. After our visit we continued on our way to meet Graham. I believe that we had been at Nathan's, Kathy's and Graham's about thirty minutes before we got the news that Tammy had passed away. We stayed in TX until the funeral and then went back to MO for the visitation and funeral and then turned back around to head back to TX. Interesting what memories pop in to my mind at times. I hadn't thought of this back and forth trip of both great joy and great sorrow until I started writing tonight's blog.
I have had a fairly busy day. I did my Krogering and then put everything away. I had my lunch and then felt the need of a nap. I did take a nap, then talked with a friend on the phone for a while. I did manage to do one of the things on my to-do list…the kitchen and downstairs bathroom. I dust mopped them and then mopped them…a task that I had good intentions to do for quite a few days…glad that I finally got them mopped.
This evening I plan to listen to a book and do some more stitching. I will end with a BIG happy birthday to Graham. We will celebrate his birthday on Sunday,
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

The day started out a bit rainy, but it wasn't very far into the morning before it was over and the day ended up sunny and fairly mild. Once again, when I needed to go to the mailbox or to put something in the garbage can no jacket was needed. Nice to be able to go out and not freeze even with a coat!
I have enjoyed a stay-at-home day. Part of the day I just felt lazy and didn't feel like doing anything..maybe because that was because I woke up very early once again. I will say waking up early is one way to end up with a day seeming quite long! I have contacted my tax preparer to make an appointment. I think that I have received everything and/or gathered what I need to take to her. I then went through some papers that had stacked up and got rid of some and filed others. I have made a grocery list, as I plan to make a trip to Kroger in the morning. I have been trying to figure out what sounds good to cook. Today I did cook a pork roast…that tasted pretty good for supper tonight.
Once again…I am clearing off my sewing cutting table which seems to be a magnet for things that I don't have a place for…it's not too bad this time. I do want to do some sewing so will need the surface to cut all cleared. I will be using a new pattern that I haven't made before so I plan to make a muslin first…I had bought some muslin fabric a while back. Today washed it so it will be a little less stiff than it came from the fabric store. I’m sure it will come out of the dryer in a wad since it is five yards! It is drying now.
Tonight I'm looking forward to stitching and watching Matlock and Elsbeth…their season is starting up again tonight. I have taken a little time today, when I didn't feel like doing anything else, to do some stitching. I continue to work on Christmas ornaments. This one has more stitching on it than some of the others that I have planned for this year. Some I am doing on perforated paper which is higher count and I can actually stitch on it without any magnification other than my readers. The one I am stitching on currently is on tiny count and readers and extra magnification and extra light is very necessary.
To be continued! Be safe! be well! be cautious!

I got home a little while ago from Wednesday night Bible study. I ate supper before I came in here to blog. While eating, I checked my email and got the best news…my passport has been approved and I will have it in hand soon…maybe even as early as next week. That clears the last hurdle, that I know of, for Melany's, Wade's, and my Alaska cruise! Good news!
Today I stayed at home except for this evening for Bible study, I mainly did little things around the house…dried a load of clothes and got them put away. Took things out to the trash…picked up a couple of pieces of cardboard that I had put out for recycle that ended up blowing back into the yard. Later in the day I took the garbage can back to the house…just mundane tasks, as usual! I did set aside some time to stitch. Last night I finished another Christmas ornament. Today I picked up a Christmas ornament that I had started but hadn't finished yet…so back on that one. I even got in an afternoon nap…not exactly intentionally…but closed my eyes for a short period of time. As I put away clothes today, I was thinking what items will go with me to Alaska! I guess I am in planning mode…have more time to plan this one than I did for my first cruise back in January…that one was a spur of the moment trip planned by Nathan and family. I guess I will see if more or less time to plan is better! Now to get passport in hand…I’ll let you know when that significant event occurs! To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!


Today was an example of the promise of Spring…yesterday very cold…the temperatures today started moderating and by the time that I took the garbage to the road, I didn't wear a jacket…yesterday, there wasn't a time to even think about going outside without a jacket. We are in the see-saw time of year…back and forth…up and down! I keep reminding myself when it is cold, that it won't be long till I am thinking about how hot it is!
The first picture tonight is just a scene that includes a street sign…we take the street signs so when looking back at photos we know (sort of) where we went that barn trip. Marie and I have gone on a couple trips that after the trip we couldn't figure out how to get back to a place that we wanted to take some more photos…so we now try to include some street signs. The second photo is also in the first photo…if you look closely you can see these donkeys on the other side of the road resting.
Today has been a fairly busy day. I started doing wash this morning. And, am about to get out the last load from the dryer and get them put away after I blog. Donna and I did work in the library this afternoon…checking books in, shelving them and doing some other maintenance jobs, like straightening shelves and reshelving books that had gotten taken from the shelves and then not put back in the right place. The library looked all neat and straight when we left.
I called Cheryl this afternoon to thank her for a birthday present that had arrived…a t-shirt for the cruise! A little while ago, I got a text from her thanking me for her birthday present that had arrived at her house this afternoon after we talked. Our birthdays are 8 days apart…our ages are 7 years apart! Besides birthday gifts, we talked about possible times for her to come here for a visit. Planning, planning, planning!
To be continuedM Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

What a brrrrrrrry day. I'm not sure if it ever got out of the upper 20s today, and, if it did get into the 30s, it didn't get very far into them! It was also breezy so that made it feel much colder than it was. I did brave the cold, as I got a haircut today. Then I ran a couple of errands…made a stop at the Credit Union…I needed check registers for my checkbook. The next stop was at the public library where I needed to return a book and renew my library card. They check to make sure that all your information is current once a year. So I’m good to check out books for another year…both real and virtual books! Before I took off for a haircut and to run errands this morning, I had to made a couple of appointments which I accomplished. So I am happy to say that I marked everything off my to-do list today. I have returned from Monday night prayer meeting and am settling in for the evening…hoping to stitch some more. I completed another Christmas ornament yesterday and got started on another one…Hope to stitch some more on it this evening…no Olympics…so maybe I will watch a sewing or cooking show…or watch a needlework YouTube (known in the stitching world as "FlossTube"). I'll end with a photo of the promises of Spring that we see all over town and in the country side.


So, I bit the bullet and paid for the blog app…so here I go using it for photo and the blog for the first time. I do like typing on this…the old way was iffy at best. This is like typing with Word on my laptop or Pages on my iPad. So much easier. I'm sure it will be worth the small pittance that I had to pay.
Today was very pretty after the rain stopped and the clouds cleared out. It is getting cooler…dropping down into the upper 20s overnight. So once again we will be shivering! We have been spoiled by the pretty weather. But what we have had is a promise of what is to come! We are looking forward to Spring. My miniature jonquils and crocus are also starting to bloom giving their promises of what is to come. It's so pretty to see the yellow and purple blooms peeking up through the ground.
Melany and Wade came today and raked the large garden that parallels the driveway…clearing the way for the irises to come up. I fixed our lunch while they worked. We ate lunch and then planned some excursions for our cruise. I think we are pretty much set except…my passport being in my hand…a rather important detail! The good news on that is that the government has cashed that check so I know the application has been received…learned that two days ago. Then today I received an email from the government saying what day the application was received and that it will be in my hands from 4-6 weeks from that date. So sounds like I will have it in hand in plenty of time.
I have gotten the kitchen cleaned up from the mess I made making lunch so now I am ready to sit down and relax, watch the Olympics, and paint my nails!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
We found barns! Perfect timing as I was running out of photos from my Bahamas cruise. 😁 It was a beautiful day for a barn trip. We wanted to go out before all the leaves come back on the trees. We really didn't go far…it was pretty much "just down the road from my neighborhood." Found a variety of barns and quite a few animals. I spent time this afternoon putting the photos that I took today onto my iPad…one of the reasons that I removed a lot of photos last night. I am very pleased with the ones that I have looked at so far. I will be sharing them with over the next weeks. Took quite a few pictures!
Before Marie and Carolyn picked me up, I made a quick trip to Kroger…mainly to get a couple of things for the meal I have planned for Melany and Wade tomorrow. I managed to get what I needed and got them home and put away before I headed off for a couple of hours. When I got home, I made a new recipe for something that I had never made before…chutney, mango chutney…tastes pretty good. It was suggested that mango chutney be served on the side with the Tahine-style chicken that I'm making for our lunch. This is a recipe that I made several weeks ago and liked it and think that Melany and Wade will too. This is a Mediterranean recipe…something totally different than what I usually make.
I have two things that I forgot to mention yesterday. I was pleased to see the government check clear my account…that means that my paperwork for my passport got to the right place…now to wait for the passport and my original birth certificate to get to me!
The other exciting thing is that Joy didn't forget how to juggle due to her concussion. She hadn't been interested in trying up until yesterday and she and Nathan passed clubs together and she even did some extra tricks. Definitely a good sign. I think that was something that her daddy was really pleased that she could still do! Joy is so much better…pretty much back to doing most things she did before. But she still isn't over it completely. She still has headaches…but is so much better…she is enjoying life once again!
Note I can now write the blog in paragraphs…a much easier screen to type in…but still have to post the blog and then open it in my phone and add the photo. I have come to the reality that that is the way I will have to do it until I break down and pay to upgrade the blog app. I will…one of these days…but until then, if you see that the blog is published and there is no photo that I just haven't gotten a photo transferred over to my phone…like tonight…I found the one I plan to use…BUT…forgot that I needed to transfer it to my phone…so it will take a little longer to get the photo added.
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
I just subscribed to the Blogger App…hopefully no more hassles!
Here's a bonus photo!

Well, all my doings today have been at home. Doing lots of this and very little of that! I used tonight's photo as my profile picture on Facebook. Cheryl doesn't do Facebook so I texted the photo to her. She said it needed to be a photo for the blog…so I am minding my sister and here it is! I'm guessing that I was in 7th or 8th grade when this was taken. My dad took it…maybe I was taking one of him?!? We were on vacation in the White Mountains in AZ staying with friends at their cabin in Pinetop. I'm sitting in front of their big fireplace. We had so much fun when we went on vacation here…good memories!
Melany and Wade are coming on Saturday so today I got my grocery list ready to go get the few things that I need for our lunch. I even got the ingredients out…all ready for me to put the recipe together Saturday before lunch. I plan to get up early in the morning and head out to Kroger. I need to do it early as I have plans with friends mid morning.
I needed to clean up the photos on my iPad…just too many on it and it was starting to be a problem when I try to download photos from my camera after taking a bunch…like on the cruise. So I backed them up on a thumb drive and on Amazon photos and then ruthlessly deleted them from my iPad. I did save some of my favorites. I formatted the memory cards on my cameras…so cameras for the moment are totally empty of photos. I think that will change tomorrow!
After I worked with my photos, I turned back to looking at excursions for the cruise. We plan to make choices for excursions on Saturday. So I have been cruising in my mind for a while this afternoon.
Now I am watching Olympics and going to finish up with my cameras and then may stitch a while. I did finish another Christmas ornament last night.
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
Today started out with a task that I wasn't all that thrilled about having to do. I had to go to the Credit Union to get my card reactivated. Last night I noticed that I had a charge that I hadn’t made on my card. It was a very small amount, but I know that that is how people get scammed…just small amounts that aren’t noticed. I made a call and had a stop put on my card. So this morning I needed to go and get a new card issued. It was a fairly quick fix…except their machine that prints the cards was broken. I was just going to wait till it was fixed…but I had two purchases that were going to be affected by shutting down my card. So I drove over to the Credit Union branch in Manchester.
The first serendipity happened just before I was leaving the Credit Union. I spotted a friend who I hadn't seen in a long time, So we got to talk for a few minutes and catch up a bit. Upon getting back into Tullahoma from my Manchester trip, I headed to my pharmacy to pick up a couple of prescriptions. They have gift items at the pharmacy so before I left I decided to check out what they had that was new since the last time I was there. I made a turn around a shelf and there standing in front of me was another longtime friend who I hadn’t seen in a long, long time. we enjoyed catching up with each other, too. Those unexpected visits just made my day! It made it sort of sparkling like the water in tonight's photo!
I’ve just gotten home from Bible study and, once again, it is time to blog and then settle in for the evening…watching Olympics and stitching. I have another ornament about half-way finished…maybe I will finish it this evening. To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
Donna and I decided to declare Presidents' Day a day late and take the day off from the library. I stayed fairly busy. I did get the Hummels and antique books back on the little bookcase in the living room. Elijah carried the bookcase downstairs for me when they took care of getting the Christmas tree upstairs. I just hadn't found the time and energy to get the books carried back downstairs. That was what I tackled this morning. Then the rest of the day I just did a little of this and a little of that. I did finish stitching another Christmas ornament…so that is three stitched and two others underway. I read some today, too. And, started listening to a new book today. I did have more energy today than yesterday…but definitely didn’t overdo today!! I’ve done a little more planning for Alaska. I mainly accomplished easy tasks today! I’m going to do some more stitching this evening…might finish another ornament. To be continued! be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
I thought that you would enjoy this photo of Esther and Patrick on their wedding day…such a sweet couple. Ahhhhhh! Young love! This is one of their wedding photos that I got my hands on earlier this week. Melany, Wade, and Erin graced me with their presence today. We had a really nice visit. It was good to see Erin feeling better and wanting to join us. We had quite the day…planning…and, Melany, Wade, and I are booked for one and even have our airline tickets to fly to and from Seattle. This trip will add two states (Washington and Alaska) and another country, Canada, to my list of places I've never been before. I never dreamed that I would ever get to Alaska but it looks like it may happen…the good Lord willing! And, of course, up to a month ago, I never dreamed that I would ever go on a cruise. I am so glad that I went on that one with Nathan and family, as that showed me that I didn't get seasick and really enjoyed myself. I have always loved to travel and Woody and I saw a lot of the United States and I had been wishing that I could do a little traveling…and here I am doing a some big time traveling! This is a 10 day cruise. I'm really looking forward to photographing our 49th state and all it grandeur! Now to practice even more with my cameras and research how best to capture Alaska in photos. My tree brigade did show up after the ballet and made short work of getting the tree into its box in the Christmas closet. They also took up all the ornament boxes…boxes still have to be packed into the closet…another day when Nathan has a few spare moments! It is good to have things back to normal in the downstairs. To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
Today I closed the last box on the ornaments and took down the tree and have all the branches and boxes ready for my tree brigade. Nathan said that he and a couple of kids will stop by and help me get the ornament boxes upstairs as well as the tree branches, My other goal was to finish the reading for Sunday's Sunday School lesson…got that done, too. I just need to put down some words in the outline that I made earlier in the week. I talked with Cheryl…we talked a little about her trip here sometime in the next few months. Then later, I called Melany and we talked plans for them to pay me a visit on Saturday plus started planning our Alaska cruise. Trips and more trips! My head should be spinning. But truthfully today I am just glad to have closed up the last of the Christmas boxes…even have the Christmas items packed away that were in Melany's room. The drier did just quit and that has some Christmas towels that I will add to the Christmas things to put away. To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
I'm not sure…but maybe I can once again write the blog and post photos from the same device! I discovered that the blog now is an app…I had always entered through Foxfire search and opened up my blog. Yesterday I had a thought about seeing if either Foxfire or Blogspot had an updated app. But I am finding that I may have to pay for the blog if I want to add photos. So today I will return to writing and posting photos from my phone…can't seem to win for losing! We'll see if that strategy still works since I still haven't updated my phone. It has been a delightful day…sunny and warm. It got to 68° today…a heatwave compared with the temps that we have been having. I worked more on the tree and at this point in the day you can actually tell that ornaments are off the tree. Still quite a few left to take off and box up, but definitely heading in the right direction. Nathan, Isaac, and Joseph stopped by this afternoon and ridded my chimney flue of my unwanted visitor (not Santa!). Let's just say one less squirrel left in my neighborhood. I am going to teach Sunday School again this Sunday so got underway with studying for it yesterday and today. My birth certificate was supposed to arrive today…but I got notified that it had been delayed and to expect it tomorrow. I’m ready to get my passport applied for so I can then renew my driver's license and get a star on it…my license has a deadline as its expiration date is fast approaching…next week. I can't apply for a passport without permanent license…they won't accept a temporary one…so passport first and the …driver's license! I went to prayer meeting and am now home. I'm planning to watch the Olympics and stitch tonight. I got sad news today. Midmorning, I got a call from my eye doctor's office needing to reschedule my next week's appointment…and, the reason I would have never guessed! My eye doctor died unexpectedly last night. Living in a small town is so different than in a large city…here our physicians are often long time friends. So news like that hits hard. To be continued! be safe! be well! be cautious!