

I started this blog in 2009 to keep folk up to date on my husband's melanoma treatments. I have kept up daily blogs for 17 years…sometimes health related...sometimes just daily routine. 6/16/24 Woody took his final breath in his long health battle. I have blogged for so long that it is part of my daily routine…so I guess I will continue with posts from me about how I cope with this new stage in my life…widowhood.



It was overcast and a bit breezy, but that wasn't a deterrent to getting a lot of raking and leaf blowing done today. Nathan, Kathy, Joy, Isaac, and Joseph arrived first. Then Melany, Wade, and Erin got here a few minutes after. And, then a bit later Elijah came. And, boy did they work hard! The Proctors brought all kinds of goodies including a birthday cake. The goodies were a good break time for the kids. They worked till lunch. Then I sent Nathan for pizza. Pizza for lunch then Melany's delicious carrot cake for dessert and to celebrate Wade's and my birthdays coming up in a few days. We had a very nice day. Erin wasn't feeling well…she got to feeling carsick on her way here and never felt great the whole time they were here. But it was good to get to see her…just sorry she didn’t feel well.
Nathan stayed a while after everyone left and worked on one of my birthday gifts…a hummingbird feeder that has a camera in it to snap hummer photos. It is partially ready…he has to mount a small solar panel…so that will happen another day…which is fine as I don't think the hummingbirds are back in TN yet.
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

It was a very warm day today. When I got into my car around noon, it said that it was 82°! It was very much a March day when you figure in the wind…but probably the warmest day that we have seen so far this year. Today was busy starting out nicely with having breakfast with Jo and Carolyn. We always have such a good time when we get together…always fun catching up with each other. The morning sped by all too quickly. Since I was on the side of town where I needed to run errands, that's what I did after we parted ways. I needed to pick up just a few things at Kroger so did that quickly and made a stop at the Credit Union. Then it was back home and time for a rest! I took a bit longer nap than I meant, but guess I needed it.
If the weather cooperates tomorrow, there may be a gathering of some Dorrells and some Proctors here to do some yard work and birthday celebrating. I guess the birthday celebrating can happen weather cooperating or not. Birthdays seem to come rain or shine!!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

I’ve had a pretty busy day. I managed to vacuum upstairs in the hallway and guest room…those areas upstairs had been pretty much full of boxes with no room for the vacuum to be able to do its work. I did a little more cleaning downstairs, too. So both the upstairs vacuum and the downstairs vacuum got a bit of a workout again today. I am so thankful that I no longer have to lug a vacuum up and down the stairs!
I have also done a little stitching. I did finish the next Christmas ornament…so now I have stitched seven ornaments for gifts for the coming Christmas. I’m closing in on completing another audio book for another Cottey Bookclub selection on down the road a bit…getting ahead on my reading for that.
It was such a pleasant day, that I actually put on a short sleeve shirt after getting rather warm with long sleeves while vacuuming. I think we are in for another dry day tomorrow, but Saturday may turn a bit soggy.
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

It has been another beautiful day. I turned in tax documents to my accountant today…that was my accomplishment of the morning. Nathan came over this afternoon and put away all my Christmas boxes. Yay! I called Cheryl and let her know that she could now come for a visit as her bed was cleared off once again! Now I can run the vacuum down a clear hallway. It has been a while. I'll see if I can accomplish that tomorrow. I have been listening to the next Cottey Bookclub book, as it became available the other day. I’ll read it while I have it available. Although, remembering it in detail for two months is doubtful! But at least I will have read it! I went to Bible study this evening, and am now home ready to settle in for the evening. I think that "if" my eyes stay open this evening that I will have the ornament finished tonight. What I have left to stitch isn't much…I "should" be able to stay awake long enough to take these last few stitches. Time will tell! To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!

Well, today has been a bit of a wash for me. I didn't feel very well for a good part of the day. I thought for a while that I might be coming down with something, but as the day wore on I felt better not worse…so think that it was just a day I didn't need to do much! Donna and I had decided on Sunday that we would take today off from the church library…so it was a day that I could do next to nothing! I did bake some biscuits from scratch early this morning…before I realized that I wasn't feeling great. I had the meat thawed to make a soup/stew today, but put that off until just a little while ago. It is now made for tomorrow…but now I have a mess to clean up…after I blog and sit and rest a few minutes. While cooking I finished listening to a book, the next book for my Cottey Bookclub. I did do a little stitching early this morning, but set it aside. Maybe I will do a little more when I get the kitchen cleaned up. I am close to being finished with this Christmas ornament. It was another beautiful spring-like day today. I enjoyed it when I made my trek out to take the garbage can to the road and get my mail. I did have a piece of mail that I had been looking for…my birth certificate…back after being sent to the government with my application for my passport. The only item that hasn't gotten back to me yet is my renewed driver's license…that I renewed online. I renewed it online the same day that I sent off my passport application, which had to go through the mail both ways. US government seems to be on top of things more than the TN government!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well. Be cautious!

Another spring-like day…though not a blue-sky day. I was thankful that it was overcast as I had an eye appointment and that meant when coming out into the daylight that my dilated eyes wouldn't have to fight the brightness. My eye appointment went well. I could tell that I could see better with one of my eyes than the other and asked her what the eye that wasn't as good tested…20/20…so guess I am seeing very well. I didn't ask what the better eye tested…but I know I could read several lines more with it. She said that my eyes were doing well and that everything tested out well and that I didn't have to come back for a year…sounds good to me. I liked my new eye doctor very well, but it was rather sad to go into the office with all the memories of my former eye doctor and realize that he had died. The office is still just getting used to his absence.
The rest of my day has been rather quiet, as my eyes were dilated (and still aren't totally back to normal and I just didn't feel like doing much…couldn't stitch, couldn't read…the kitchen lights were too bright for me to do anything in there. I did call Cheryl, my favorite and only sister, to wish her a happy birthday and we talked for a while. After lunch, I took a nap. Another friend called and we talked for a while. Then it was time to head to Monday night Furnace Room Prayer Meeting. I am now home and am going to have a late supper. Then I hope that my eyes are able to do a little stitching, if not, then I may watch a little TV before settling in to sleep.
We did have a good birthday celebration for Graham yesterday…a nice family time. I’ll add in here at the end the family picture that I took before the gathering broke up. Kathy hadn't gotten a picture of all of them on the day of Esther's and Patrick's wedding so she was determined to get a photo of all eleven of them together yesterday…so I obliged!
To be continued! Be safe! Be well! Be cautious!
