I started this blog in 2009 to keep folk up to date on my husband's melanoma treatments. I have kept up daily blogs for 16 years…sometimes health related...sometimes just daily routine. 6/16/24 Woody took his final breath in his long health battle. I have blogged for so long that it is part of my daily routine…so I guess I will continue with posts from me about how I cope with this new stage in my life…widowhood.
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
April Draws to a Close!
Monday, April 29, 2013
Drier Day!
Saturday, April 27, 2013
Saturday Showers
Friday, April 26, 2013
Friday Fumblings!
I write this to the sound of rain on the rooftop and a bit of thunder rumbling in the background...guess we have a forecasted storm approaching. Another sign of Spring...pretty day...stormy day...cooler days...pretty day...warmer day...stormy day...another change in temperature! Woody got up early and decided to run some early errands...but his plans were foiled...dead battery. Nathan and he jumped the car and then Woody was off to buy a new battery (not part of his planned errands!). So we once again have two running cars! Now if I just felt like going some place! The only place that I have gone other than our house and Nathan and Kathy's in the last two weeks (or more) has been to church. I am feeling better...but still not 100%...though it does look like I am back to being able to eat normally...or at least easing back into "normal!" My left knee (original knee that was hurting) is definitely much better...not hurting...mainly still swollen a bit. My right knee started hurting because of overcompensation due to the left knee. Well, it seems much better today too...though I am treating it like the hurt knee now when climbing the stairs, etc. (up with the good and down with the bad). I slept in our bed for the first time in weeks last night and slept well. I have spent a good portion of the day working on Sunday's Sunday School lesson for my ladies' class. Late afternoon, I knew, wasn't a good time to nap BUT...my eyes wouldn't stay open so slept hard for a while...still don't feel awake...probably will wake up about bedtime! My nap foiled my plans for making supper (slept through supper!)...perhaps we will have that plan tomorrow! Cooking has been put on the back burner for a while since I haven't felt like eating or standing! Woody does a good job fending for himself...I'm so thankful that he can find his way around the kitchen! After getting a new battery, Woody was all set to run his original planned errands. He went to the library and he stopped for specials at the grocery stores he didn't go to yesterday. He has worked quite a bit in the yard...planting a big fern in one of our gardens, making a new "flower bed" using an idea that I had some time back and sowing some seeds in it, mowing the lawn...all kinds of outdoor jobs to be done before the rain settled in once again. Which brings me to the present...the rain has settled in and is supposed to be with us for a day or so.
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Mr. and Mrs. Cardinal

I have finally gotten pictures of cardinals with my new camera...I was pretty far away when I snapped these so hoping for a closer shot in the near future. I look forward to another warm spell when I can sit out on the front porch and take photos of birdie visitors to our front yard. Woody and I both got up really early this morning. Woody was a great help in doing some household chores that I really can't do at the moment because of my knees...like vacuum. The downstairs is ever so much more presentable now! Abigail came over this morning and helped me put away some toys in the toy closet...again, something that I can't do due to my knees...crawl into the toy closet! After she picked up the toys, we got back to work on her sewing notebook. We got stopped on that project the other day because we ran out of ink in the printer. We got the pictures printed and got one project page ready for her notebook. We still have to add the pictures and info for jumper and capris that she made her doll...next time! Woody went to the grocery store. He has also done quite a bit of mowing today. He is now next door taking care of the kids while Nathan and Kathy have a date night. Nathan and Kathy and the children are busy getting items collected and ready for their big yard sale for their mission trip to Africa. Nathan and Woody went to pick up some items today and then others dropped items off. Their garage has quite a collection of various and sundry items in it! Their yard sale will take place next Friday and Saturday (May 3 & 4). One man's junk = another man's treasure!!!!!
Wednesday, April 24, 2013
Frog Legs, Anyone?!?
Tuesday, April 23, 2013
Mulchin' and Shuckin'
Monday, April 22, 2013
Painting the Town?
The storage building that Nathan and Graham built was ready for shingles and paint today. Several chose to sling paint...others decided to stay out of the mess and practice tricks on their swing set and/or make creations in the sandbox! This afternoon Abigail came over to have Goosey (Woody) go check to see if we had any paint in the garage that they could use. We did have some...at least enough to get a start on the project. This morning I had a bit of school with Elijah, Esther, and Joy. We mainly worked on reading. Elijah is sooooooooo close to being able to sound out words. It's so fun to watch a little one when they start to hear the word that they are saying the sounds for! Woody worked more on his mulching/weeding project this morning. Then after lunch he walked eight miles. I rested/dozed and read after lunch. I am still being very careful of my knee, but it is definitely better...really doesn't hurt...just a bit stiff and and a little swollen. Woody had an unwelcome surprise last night...after he got into bed, he realized that he was having kidney stone pain. NO! NO! NO! Not Allowed! He got up and paced for a while and then went downstairs so he could start drinking lots of water. The pain finally let up and he was able to get some sleep. So far today the pain hasn't returned. Questions now remain...Has the stone just stopped moving? OR Has he passed the stone? Hoping that it is the latter! Guess time will tell!
Saturday, April 20, 2013
Which Winter is This?
Friday, April 19, 2013
Chilly Willy!
What happened to the warmth! A frost advisory has been issued for our area for tonight. Brrrrrr! Woody did our weekly grocery shopping and he did take a walk this afternoon. I have stayed quiet in my recliner due to my knee...which is much better...I've rested it, elevated it, wrapped it, iced it, etc. I think that I may have started eating "normally" a bit too soon and am paying for it...so back to eating a bit more blandly. I have taken it easy today...reading, working on my iPad, studying about my camera, etc.
Thursday, April 18, 2013
Next?
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
Goal Met!
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Raising the Roof!
I eased back into school today and for the most part took it easy. I feel better, but not great. I had all the kids for a little while at some time during the morning except for Graham and as you can see he was outside helping raise the roof on the storage building that he and his daddy are building. They even got Goosey (Woody) involved! Besides raising a roof, Woody has worked a lot in the gardens...weeding and mulching. The gardens are looking soooooooooo great! I spent a little time outside looking at the gardens and taking pictures. I even sat on the front porch while talking to my sister this afternoon. I will probably be sorry as I can feel my allergies "coming on." I guess if it isn't one thing it is another at this point in my life!!!!! Woody's walk of the day is to the prayer room...where he is right now. He took a slight detour to the public library to drop off the movies that Erin checked out while she was here.
Monday, April 15, 2013
Beautiful Spring Day!
Woody didn't walk today, but he did do yard work...he mulched, weeded, and mowed...mowed for the first time today. This morning he ran an errand for me...I needed some "sick food." Yesterday I started having an intestinal problem and haven't felt the best since. Still feel weak...but then toast, tea, Sprite, yogurt, broth, and crackers don't give one a lot of energy. I did go outside a time or two to help Woody distinguish plants from weeds...warmer outside than it was inside. While I was out I did snap a couple of pictures. I'm hoping that tomorrow will be an even better day...both weather-wise and the way I feel!
Saturday, April 13, 2013
Much Mulch!
There was a lot of yard work happening at our house today. Melany and Alex arrived late morning and Alex helped Goosey (Woody) get some buckets and wheelbarrows of mulch. Woody did most of the spreading. After they first got here, Melany showed me some hints about Photoshop that she had learned in her class. Then she went out to join the mulching gang. I pulled a couple of weeds and took pictures the rest of the time! At lunch time I went in and got things ready for our lunch. We ate and then we went back out...they mulched/weeded/picked out leaves, etc. in the gardens and I took more pictures. Tonight's photo shows the creeping phlox all set off with the dark mulch...very pretty and a lot of work. I appreciate all the hard work done by Alex, Melany and Woody! When they called it quits out in the gardens, it was time for supper so Woody pulled out the leftovers from our noon meal and we had another round with it. So glad that all I had to do today was warm up things! Woody ran an errand this morning before Melany and Alex got here. He didn't walk today...got his exercise gardening instead! Well, at the moment all is quiet on the western front and I'm heading to my recliner!!!!!
Friday, April 12, 2013
Done (In?)!
Well, cooking is done for today and for tomorrow and Grammy is "done in!" I almost made it without my back giving me a problem, but just as we were completing the potato salad I got a catch in my back...at least it is at the end of the day! I say that the cooking is done...not quite as the baked beans still have an hour to cook...but all done but the shouting! The neighbor grandchildren joined us this morning while their parents went to pick up their RV that had been in the shop. And, they came in and out several other times today as they know that Erin will be going home tomorrow. Woody walked to the library this afternoon. Woody has also done some weeding...taking advantage of the recent rain. I cooked this morning and Erin entertained her cousins. This afternoon we have both done our share of cooking. The dishwasher is loaded and running, I have done a drainer full of cooking dishes that don't go in the dishwasher, Erin has put those away and now I have left Woody and Erin to finish up the pots and pans. What a mess...but cooking is done for several days (I hope!). I'm heading to the recliner in the bedroom to read...that is if my eyes stay open!
Thursday, April 11, 2013
Raising Walls!
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Next!

Today was Abigail's big day to get her retainer! Goosey (Woody) and she walked to the orthodontist, Post Office (right across the street from the orthodontist) and the library (on the way home from orthodontist). This isn't the greatest picture of Abigail (sorry, Abigail!), but in order to see the wire that is in the back of her teeth we had to take it this way! The wire behind her teeth is to keep her from thrusting her tongue on her front teeth. She probably got this from me (oops!). I thrust my tongue and brush my bottom teeth every time I swallow. I can remember my orthodontist explaining about the many, many, many pounds of pressure that are placed on teeth when a tongue thrusts this way. I never learned to stop doing it...thus I wear a permanent retainer to this day. We have had a busy day. I had sort of a shortened day of school with Elijah, Esther, Joy, and Abigail. Then Erin made a yummy chef salad for our lunch. After lunch, Erin and I headed to the church library and Woody and Abigail headed to the orthodontist. Erin was a great help to Donna, Fran and myself in the library. We got lots done with her help and all the reference books that we had taken off the reference shelves have the extra work done on them and they are back on the shelves! Yeah! Erin and I stopped at the public library on our way home from the church library. Erin wanted some DVD's and also some more books. She only got two books yesterday and had already finished one. The reader in us never wants to be down to "just one book!" So now she has plenty to choose from over the next few days that she will be here. While we were at the library, I checked to see if the next in the series that I'm reading was in and it was so I checked that out...so I'm in good shape reading-wise...one book started from the church library, one book started from the public library, one e-book checked out and started and in the midst of one audio book. This morning and late afternoon one or another of Erin's neighbor cousins drifted over to "play" with her once they got their school work done and we were back from the libraries. Nathan and Graham have really been working to get as much done as possible on their storage building before the rains/storms come tomorrow. I am impressed with what all they have done on the building. Graham is keeping his daddy straight! It was very warm today. It got up to the mid 80's, but those temps are supposed to go down a bit with the coming rain. Erin and I were tired after we got back from the libraries so we scratched the plans for supper tonight and had leftovers from last night and this noon and added a package of Italian mixed veggies. We'll get back on track with our "menus" tomorrow when we have a bit more time in the afternoon.
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
A Happy Camper!
Monday, April 8, 2013
Happy Birthday, Melany!
Tonight's photo shows Melany when she was two--or there about--when we lived out in California. It was originally a black and white photo that I took "way back when" and what is posted tonight is Melany's homework from a Photoshop class that she is taking at the present time. She had to add color to a black and white photo. She sent it to me over the weekend and I decided that it was the perfect photo to post tonight. I just looked in my 1972 file folder and found that she is 2 year and one month old...so this was taken just a bit before Nathan was born. Woody made vegetarian burritos at noon today. I had a short time of school with Elijah, Esther and Joy this morning and then have spent the rest of the time cleaning and resting...getting ready for Melany, Erin and Alex to visit tomorrow. Abigail came over for a while and helped me clean...she ran the vacuum for a little while and helped me move some things out of the way and then back so I could vacuum where they were. Erin is going to stay with us for a few days. Her room is all ready for her. I just have the bathrooms left to clean...well, probably more needs to be cleaned...but...that will end the cleaning! Woody took a four mile walk this afternoon. It has been a beautiful day--mid 70's! WOW!!!! I have been pondering while I worked around the house today as to how it is possible that we have a daughter as old as Melany is!!!! I will end on that note wishing our older child a very happy birthday!
Saturday, April 6, 2013
Tulip Time!
Our tulips have begun to bloom. That means that Melany's birthday must be near...the tulips across the street from our house were blooming at the time of her birth...and now when it is almost ______ years since that day, they are blooming once again in Middle TN (still a couple of days till her birthday so they will be even prettier by the BIG day). Woody went to the grocery store early this morning. I got up and started in on my sewing. I did manage to get the pattern traced and the fabric cut out and I have begun sewing. It is a bit of a rude awakening sewing something for me after making all those doll clothes. The seams surely are a lot longer! I did spend a little while out in the yard today taking pictures of some of the flowers that are blooming. Woody took a four-mile walk this afternoon. He has been watching March Madness.
Friday, April 5, 2013
Sunny Friday!
It was really good to see the sunshine today! It was nice to have the sun shine in through the windows. It even warmed up a bit more today (though I stayed inside). It actually got into the 60's...but I have still felt cold most of the day. Woody went to the library and to one grocery store today. He also walked four miles and worked in the yard. I am still in the getting ready to sew for myself mode. I did manage to get a pattern out and look over the instructions and took the pattern and fabric downstairs. But the pattern needs to be traced and I just never got into the right mode/mood to do that. I spent a long time hunting for a recipe this morning...finally decided that I hadn't copied it down when we had the library cookbook. So checked on the public library website and found that it was in, so Woody decided to do his weekend library visit today instead of tomorrow. That way we can get ingredients on the grocery list. We are planning for Erin to visit with us next week so I'm also in the menu planning mode. I guess you can say that I was in a lot of different modes today...but just didn't get much accomplished in any of them. But was happy that I did find the recipe I was looking for in the library cookbook...so one mission accomplished!
Thursday, April 4, 2013
April Showers!
Wednesday, April 3, 2013
And, Why Do Your Teeth Hurt When You Have Braces?
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Here is the photo of Graham yesterday before he got his braces on...note that the top front tooth on the right (as you are looking at his mouth) laps slightly over the one on the left. Well, the photo of Graham with his braces on shows his mouth today...guess what...no lapping over any more! I guess he at least sees a reason that his mouth hurts...those teeth are moving! His daddy has kept him so busy today that he hasn't had much time to think about a hurting mouth. They are building a storage building in their backyard. Lots of hammering going on over there. I had school with Elijah, Esther, Joy and Abigail this morning. Abigail took Graham's time as he really wanted to continue helping his daddy rather than coming for Grammy school time! Woody and Elijah made pumpkin pudding after Elijah had his time with me. Woody carried it over to Graham and family for them to have for dessert with their lunch (something else soft for Graham!). I ate a quick bite of lunch and then headed to the church library to work for a couple of hours. We solved several problems and finished with a task as much as we could till we get some supplies sent. I came right home and ordered what we needed to complete that library task...so maybe those supplies will arrive before next week and then we can get that task completed...before too much longer! Woody has done more mulching and also walked four miles this afternoon.
Tuesday, April 2, 2013
Big Day for Graham!
Monday, April 1, 2013
Look Who Came All By Himself to See Us?!?
April Fools! Isaac didn't come over all by himself. Nathan was right behind him. I cropped Nathan out of the picture to try to fool you! We have had "several" April Fools jokes played on us today so thought that I would get in on the fun! I happened to be closing the curtains and saw Isaac coming so snapped a picture. It was so cute watching him follow the stepping stones between our houses. Isaac lead the way and Nathan, Esther and Elijah followed him. He made it up our front steps and came to the door and then Esther and Elijah opened the door to let him inside. Awwwwwww! He's getting to be such a big boy...all too quickly! I can't get used to seeing him up and walking! Our day started our quite early...well, Woody woke up first, but for some reason he turned on our light and that woke me up. So a little after 5am, Woody headed off on a seven-mile walk and I got up and decided that I would sew for a while before the children came over for school. Between nine and noon I had school with Elijah, Esther, Joy and Abigail and then this afternoon I spent more time sewing. Joy's doll now has pantaloons, an old-fashioned sunbonnet, a hankie, and a dress that just needs snaps and buttons sewn on it. I'm going to sew those on while watching Dancing With the Stars. Then I am through with doll sewing for a while and going to turn to sewing for myself. Woody spent quite a while outside mulching this afternoon. He finished the garden that is on the back of our house. The day started out quite foggy, but turned into a pretty blue sky day...very welcome after all the rain that we got over the weekend.
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